10 Questions to Ask before Attending Worship this Weekend

Worship is not only about what we do when the church gathers; it is what we are to do every day. The best worship is a continuum of: worshiping God by getting ready to meet Him; worshiping Him with His people through His Word and His Spirit; and worshiping Him by being obedient to His Word. Here are 10 questions to ask yourself today prior to gathering with other believers this weekend:*

  1. Do I really expect to encounter God in worship? If you do, that will change the way you live today. When God encounters holy people; He purifies them; when He encounters unholy people, though, He sometimes consumes them.
  2. Will my sin hinder the work of God’s Spirit in our congregation? God is, of course, sovereign, but He often chooses not to work through unrepentant people. Even Jesus’ work in Nazareth was limited because the people did not believe (Mark 6:5).
  3. Will my prayers at church be the first time I’ve genuinely focused on prayer this week? If so, God may need to break through your self-dependence simply to bring your heart to the beginning of worship. 
  4. Is there anyone I hope I won’t see at church this weekend? Be honest—is there anybody with whom you’re having conflict? anyone you hope to avoid at church?
  5. Might anyone I know be attending with us this weekend because I’ve invited him or her? This answer is easy – though not good – if you haven’t invited anyone to attend. If you have invited someone, pray for that person now.
  6. Will I give sacrificially to support God’s work? Giving dollars is one way to give, but not the only way. Will you give your money and your talents/abilities in worship? I encourage believers to give to God “until it hurts.” Nothing we give will compare to what God has given us.
  7. Am I planning to listen to the preaching? Sometimes we struggle with the preaching. Our reasons vary, but the result is the same: we don’t really listen. If you’re already planning on not listening, you’re likely going to miss something God has for you.  
  8. Have I prayed for the one who will proclaim the Word? It’s possible to answer #3 above properly, but miss this one. We leave our pastors uncovered in the spiritual battle if we haven’t prayed for them before they preach. And, you don’t have much right to #7 above if you haven’t interceded for your pastor.
  9. If God unexpectedly moves in my life in a powerful way, will I say, “Not my will, but yours be done”? God has been known to interrupt our plans, redirect our dreams, change our callings – and even move our locations. Worship is most genuine when the worshiper first lays himself or herself on the altar.
  10. If I’m honest, am I assuming that nothing will change in my life after worship this weekend? I fear too many of us would answer “yes” to this question. May God change our heart if that’s the case.   

What other questions would you add?    

*Thanks to my friend Mark for encouraging me to think about this idea. 


  • Barry Joslin says:

    Dr. Lawless,
    Wow. These are great and some…too personal! You’ve really put your finger on some things here that we all need to work through. Thank you.

    Barry Joslin

  • Barry Joslin says:

    …starting with me.

  • Piper Post says:

    I would add… Have I prepared my heart to worship through time reading God’s word?
    I often skip my quiet time on Sunday mornings–I’m going to get enough God at church that day, right? It recently occurred to me that it’s backward to think that way.

  • Jim Dunn says:

    I believe daily devotions and prayer each day through the week prepares you for your Sunday worship that your mindset and heart is totally inline,and focused on God.Then is when you hear and receive the message he has for you without interruptions,or distractions.My worship starts on my Monday’s when I awake.And when Sunday morning arrives I give God what He desires, A Heart Of Worship! More than a song!

  • I really like this list. The one about seeing someone I don’t really want to was good. I would add ‘Am I focusing on the cross of Jesus? Or is it just a social gathering to get entertained at.

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