Too often, I hear from churches whose leader seems to have stopped leading. They want their leader to cast vision, raise up other leaders, and press forward – but it’s just not happening. My years of church consulting have shown at least these reasons for this lack of leadership:
- They’re burned out. Whatever they’ve faced has brought them to physical and emotional exhaustion. They don’t have the energy right now to lead.
- They’ve been hurt. Church pain can be some of the deepest pain. It’s unexpected, and it can be emotional. It’s tough to lead when your heart is hurting.
- They’re struggling with private sin. Usually, no one knows about this sin until it becomes public – and that’s too late. Unforsaken sin robs us of our vision and direction.
- They’ve hit their leadership limit. All of us have a lid on our leadership unless we keep growing and challenging ourselves. Stunted growth leads to stunted leadership.
- They never really learned how to lead. Too many of us have learned about leadership, if we have at all, only through experience – so we learn only on the go. It’s hard to lead proactively when that’s the case.
- They’re looking elsewhere for a new job. Even the greatest pastors who commit to working hard might find it a struggle to lead when they’re beginning to look for a new position.
- They’re physically not well. They may not even recognize yet what’s happening physically, but they just know their energy is depleted. Many pastors are also so private that they don’t share their concerns with anyone.
- Their marriage is struggling. A home life marked by chaos and conflict can quickly affect a leader’s focus and vision.
- They’re tired of fighting the church structure. They want to lead, but the church polity and tradition stifle them – and battling the system is no longer worth it.
- They’re questioning their calling. They’re wondering if they should be a pastor at all, or they’re not sure they should be a senior leader. Internal confusion hinders their leadership passion.
What other causes have you seen – or even experienced?
This may be related to the marriage point but I would add challenges with children. This is not just about rebellion but also include special needs.
Good point, Stephen. Thanks.
absolutely, I completely agree. We are facing issues with our children right now and we also have a 4 year old granddaughter. It takes a huge amount my wife’s and my time. My wife also works from home and I also study from home since my church is a half hour away. But I am not able to go to the church for that completely quiet time as often as I would like, as I am also helping with my granddaughter. Its very chaotic here at home sometimes and it does take quite a bit of time and emotional energy.
Thank you for this wonderful post
Blessings!