Living for Christ is hard – sometimes so hard that we’re tempted to wonder if it’s worth the sacrifice. It is, of course, but difficulties sometimes cloud that truth. Based on my years of studying spiritual warfare, here are characteristics of believers who don’t give up in the battle:
- They’re solidly connected to a local church. That is, they don’t just attend a church; they participate in it. They’re involved in a small group, and they serve in some capacity. They’re living for something other than themselves.
- They have a devotional life, even if it’s not perfect. They might be struggling with consistency, but they’re working at it. They make time to read the Bible and pray.
- They have somebody to walk with them. They don’t fight the battle alone, because they have a Christian brother or sister who stands with them. They share their burdens and their struggles – which always lightens the load a bit.
- They choose to believe what the Bible says. Even when they may not “feel” like it’s true, they make the choice to trust Bible truths like “I will not leave you or forsake you” (Heb. 13:5) and “greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world” (1 John 4:4).
- They rehearse God’s care in the past. It’s easy to forget yesterday’s blessings when today’s hard, but those who don’t give up fight hard to avoid that error. They continually remind themselves, “God has never let me down in the past. He won’t now, either.”
- They trust that when they are weak, God is their strength (2 Cor. 12:10). They may not like the battle, but they learn from the apostle Paul’s prior experience. Weakness doesn’t bother them, for they know God’s power is most evident when they are weakest.
- They understand the witness of faithfulness in the battle. They recognize that somebody’s always watching them – and that their witness is most potent when life is hard and their faith is stretched. Their faithfulness in the valley catches the attention of the watching world.
- They cry out to God. There’s no pretense in their praying. They sugarcoat none of their words, and they follow no formula in their prayers. They know God’s big enough to handle their questions and their pain. He is, you know. . . .
Let us know how we might pray for you if you’re tempted to give up.
Thank you for your truths and reminding us that we are never alone.
Blessings, Debbie.
When our son took his own life, the reality was crushing. The sorrow and grief were deep and intense. We still grieve, today, but we walked through this time of our lives because of an abiding faith.
Every single point (1-8) came to play in how we moved through that storm. Above all, point 5 came true. I call it spiritual hygiene.
We brush our teeth, daily. We bath, daily. We practice all sorts of things so that, when called upon, it becomes second nature to perform, rightly. Because we practiced these principles before the crisis, we were able to employ them for real when the time came.
Thanks for articulating what is a great truth!
God bless you, Bob, for sharing your story with us.
This helps me get through day by day. Also praying for my friends who need this.
Just prayed for you, Karen.
This is great and most definitely helping me.
If I were really, really desperate for something to preach… 😉
I’ve been there . . . . Thanks, Anthony.
I need some prayers for a career in Christ breakthrough
Praying
We gave up in the battle. Still trying to come back. I asked myself what was missing, what happened, why is it so hard to come back. I feel like I’ve been betrayed. I’m swimming upstream against the current. I’m different and so is everyone else. I spent years ill and still struggle living w physical pain that limits me. Any advice for moving forward, feeling fulfilled again?